tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1877391641371625441.post7763424092377004152..comments2023-02-25T00:36:53.748-08:00Comments on A dads everyday life taking care of a wife w/ cancer & a 3 Yo : No mother should have to deal with thisMike Fitzgeraldhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11223670475494685623noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1877391641371625441.post-30426189230638015102012-05-10T16:26:06.732-07:002012-05-10T16:26:06.732-07:00I agree to what people above are saying. Like, I s...I agree to what people above are saying. Like, I said in other post, Kezia is still a mother, no matter what. You are still a father when Father's Day is coming in June. Also, you two are parent to Saoirse, no matter what. Mother's Day and Father's Day is just a part of holiday. Why do we need those specific months to celebrate it, when parents can be thankful everyday. Just be thankful that you are parents, no matter what. Yes, it is true that Saoirse will not be with you two physically on that date, but she is still around you two. Be there for Kezia this Sunday because she will be there for you in June. Sending thoughts and prayers.chimp78https://www.blogger.com/profile/08120597034171553126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1877391641371625441.post-73580016612554623472012-05-10T16:17:24.754-07:002012-05-10T16:17:24.754-07:00It will be rough, but I am sure you will find a wa...It will be rough, but I am sure you will find a way to make it special (My husband did last year - it did make me cry, but it was very special)<br /><br />Be with her - love her, reminder her what a wonderful mom she was to your beautiful girl. She will ALWAYS be her mom - even if it doesn't feel like that this year.<br /><br />Nancy =)<br />http://thecookiegal.wordpress.com/2012/05/10/mothers-day-2/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1877391641371625441.post-27600908765805675142012-05-10T15:53:03.498-07:002012-05-10T15:53:03.498-07:00Agree with Tiffany. She's still a Mom. It wil...Agree with Tiffany. She's still a Mom. It will be a hard day no doubt. Will be thinking of you both on Sunday (and saying a little prayer for comfort and peace).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1877391641371625441.post-75308736778207297062012-05-10T15:17:33.085-07:002012-05-10T15:17:33.085-07:00Tiffany hit the nail on the head. Kezia is a mom. ...Tiffany hit the nail on the head. Kezia is a mom. That will not change. Celebrate that and cry too. Its ok. You guys hang in there. Keep in mind....Mothers Day is made up. Fathers Day too. <br /><br />You are parents EVERYDAY and you ALWAYS will be. Your little angel will bring you comfort when you need it most.SweetiePunk Pendants & Photoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02774495769630039820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1877391641371625441.post-7678384449545611982012-05-10T06:45:46.148-07:002012-05-10T06:45:46.148-07:00I think you do exactly as you mentioned....be ther...I think you do exactly as you mentioned....be there for her, give her the space she needs but don't leave her alone. When my close friend lost her daughter, we made sure to still celebrate her as a Mother. Kezia will always be Mom to sweet Saiorse and that is definitely worth celebrating. :) <br /><br />This is an excerpt from an article I found that I feel may be helpful for you in figuring out what to do this year: "She fits where every other mother fits – in the spotlight. She’s still a mom, and she still needs to know that she is viewed this way by everyone else."<br /><br />http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/dying-well/201005/mothers-day-after-your-childs-death<br /><br />Thinking of you both always. Happy Mother's Day to Kezia! <3Tiffanynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1877391641371625441.post-19632606517189981322012-05-10T06:39:41.079-07:002012-05-10T06:39:41.079-07:00Your five lines of text have my tears flowing. I&#...Your five lines of text have my tears flowing. I'm a mom of two and cannot fathom having either one of them gone from my arms. I would imagine just being there for each other is the best you can hope for on such a bittersweet day. Thinking of you both. Happy Mother's Day to Kezia; Saoirse will be there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com